ryn is my best friend and we joke abt that stuff all the time. i am okay with him saying those things because he isnt creepy and doesnt ask for pictures of my chest repeatedly. he respects boundaries and when i express my discomfort he stops. there is a big difference between him and everyone else. If someone else said that i would be creeped out. those people arent as close as he and I were and they knew i was uncomfortable but kept going.