Aries- Get a grip! They will probably come back eventually, its what kids do, the act like they leave then they will come back because they know dayum well they cant do anything by themselves!
Aries- thats what back up plans are for, you can go with him and if things go south you can run for the hills and find someone you feel safe with to stay till the threat is gone, I thought of better plans on the fly when I was your age.