Let's exchange "queer people" and "black people"
"I don't really mind black people, but I don't support them" "all I'm saying is that being black is a sin" "I'm uncomfortable with seeing black people in all of the media now" "black people should just try harder to be white"
Do you see how that is definitely Racist? Like, there's no wiggle room there-- those are explicitly racist statements. These are all things people hate about the lgbtq community.
If you do not think LGBTQ people deserve human rights, that is homophobic. If you dislike someone for being black, that's racist. If you dislike someone for being queer, that's homophobic.
Being homophobic extends to a lot of things, not just slurs and violence.