As a male, I get men can be abused and their abusers can get away with it and we should stop that too. But woman also needs attention because their abusers can get away with it too and the woman can end up being punished instead. There had been times where the male victims were punished instead but that happens to female victims, too as in the middle east, they can end up getting killed with honors killing if they were a part of the abuse, abuser or victim. I care about my gender but we are usually so focused on how one gender suffers that we also don't pay attention to that other gender.