Trans Flag

yeah, the USA sucks.
But:
* don't tell everybody that your friend is trans if they're not ready yet
* ask pronouns immediately, and be willing to use new names and pronouns if they want to.
* showing that you really support them and helping them through dysphoria can mean a lot more than you can imagine
* report bullying, BUT never give the person you're reporting to your name, or your friend's name in order to prevent them saying their name or yours and making everything really bad
* overall, just try to be nice about the whole thing and help them if they need help :)))

Ok that's really helpful

I'm glad!!

Ok by immediately like when you find out they are trans or like the second you meet them?

It's usually once you meet a new person for the first time good to ask for pronouns (and names of course), and it's especially good to ask for if there's new names or new pronouns after they tell you their trans and you told them that you accept them :)
(By the way, are you asking this because you have a trans friend or just for future reference? Just curious)

I'm asking because, well I know I should ask for pronouns but because they're is a wide veil of transphobia at my school I would prefer to refer to them as they/ them until I get close enough to them to figure it out. Is that ok?

100%! They/them is universally used to use when you don't know somebody's pronouns but want to go safe. ( even transphobes do it without even thinking lol)
I'm sorry your school is a lot of transphobia though :(

Don't worry there is a lot of nice people there also

oh good!
My school is pretty similar to that tbh, one time for about 3 days there was a war between trans rights 0_o

Wow it's never gotten that bad here. Hope it never does. Sorry that happened

first off i wanna say mfs who say gays got it easy these days are dumb.
we still have it hard.

Yep

I wish I didn't live in the stupid USA, I really hate all the laws they pass

To be a better ally, refer to Ace-The-Kirbo-Loving-Artist's comment
:)

(awwww, ty)

Haha, yeah well what can I say this country was never gonna be peaceful

imo the only way to protect trans ppl is dont tell ppl that ppl are trans

Yeah, I just want my trans friends to be safe

bruh i hate being a trans nonbinary furry in the USA, there are too many anti-furries and anti-LGBTQ here and i hate it

Man, I'm real sorry. I'm not trans but I really hate it when people are treated worse for something that doesn't even affect them

Ohhhh

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Im moving to germany

Nice

Umm there was one guy I see a lotion yt idk what he’s called I’ll tell you if I find him
He talks about that stuff kinda so hope it helps if I find it

Cool, here I followed you. Memechat me when you find him. Thanks

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