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a bit of backstory - so i told my family and a couple of my friends that im dating my gf. when i told her i came out to them, she was rlly happy. i asked when she was gonna come out again and she told me she wouldn’t. she would let them figure it out on their own because she doesn’t want to make a big deal out of it (last time we got together around thanksgiving so she announced it then) like last time. i feel like she should come out to them to make things easier but i dont wanna micromanage her.
am i the a-hole for feeling this way, or is it normal to worry about your s/o?

It's normal .
I worry about people I hardly know, tho, so I may not be the best person to give advice lol

thanks :)

👍

YOU ARE...

NOT THE ARSEHOLE!

YAY

I feel like it doesn't matter that much, if she already came out. Being gay shouldn't be some big event or secret, yk? Just come home with your partner as you would a straight romance. But, if it is really important to you, then tell your gf your concerns <3