KEEP TALKING TO 'ADVERSARIES' IN SAME OLD WAYS (AS THEY DO TO US): MILLEY THE OTHER DAY: CHINA HAS DONE X, Y AND Z, BUT WAR IS NEITHER INEVITABLE NOR IMMINENT; HOW ABOUT ADMIT THEY HAVE A POINT OF VIEW TOO; WE HAVE DONE THINGS THAT MAKE THEM FEEL CONTAINED, AND THREATENED; STOP THE OLD-FASHIONED "IT'S ALL THEIR FAULT" BLUSTERING AND TALK TO CHINA & RUSSIA & IRAN IN A GROWN UP, REALISTIC WAY; I THINK THEY MAY RESPOND IN KIND. PUTIN HAS ALREADY TRIED TO