In all of these verses you listed, you left out the parts that stated that these laws happened hundreds of years ago.
This was the Lord speaking to moses back in the days of BC.
Nowadays, if a person loses their virginity before marriage or uses bad words, they won’t be punished instantly.
But one day when Christ comes back, he will see how terrible humans have become thanks to satan, and he will destroy all evil and hate.
These laws aren’t valid in modern day because we cant just kill someone because they did something wrong.
You’re point isnt valid because you left out the FULL chapter and just focused on the verses at-hand