Gay Questions for Straight People

are you sure it’s not a phase though? how can you know if you’ve never slept with a man?

Sorry about the wait, I had to beat Nova by racking up my notifications.

Anyway, it's not the change that I specifically am afraid of, no. It's the change that the rest of us are never going to accept: trans rights. We can tolerate gays just fine, but switching your gender because you aren't happy with it is even more absurd. Sure, they did it to be happy, but happiness comes with a price, it always does. That price is not only losing your dick, but being consistently pushed around for it. You might have some people who support you, but they ain't gonna be the ones saving you from whatever the government has planned. Now, while I personally don't agree with killing off multiple people for a choice they made, I still stand by my word that the choices the trans made to get their dick removed isn't the best option they had. Something else that proves we're going in the wrong direction is how the lgbt is saying how much braver they are than the veterans who died for their country. We've had men and women of all sexualites be drafted overseas, yet lgbt is the one giving them a hard time in general saying how what they're doing isn't an act of bravery. Which brings me to my next point: coming out as gay isn't an act of bravery. Is it good that you're working up the courage to confess something? yeah, in most cases it is. the reason i say "most" is because imagine a pedophile working up the courage to tell his best friend he rapes children. getting back on point, it's an act of courage, not bravery. An example of bravery is stepping up to a nearly impossible task when no one else will. Examples of this will include: diffusing a bomb, going undercover on the other side, fighting off China's forces once WW3 pops up. Now, these are certainly things the lgbt are more than capable of, but we see very little motivation from them to actually do those things. Nowadays we're seeing members of the community find the smallest things about certain things that they can use to actively get the things they want shut down. Has anyone here ever heard about the time a feminist called the Doom series transphobic and sexist? Oh yeah, real funny to watch someone claim that a game based around killing demons is transphobic. We see this in other places too. LGBT attacked Mr. Beast for his video "Boys Circle vs Girl Circle" because he didn't add a "Nonbinary Circle." Let that sink in for a moment: Mr. Beast almost got canceled because he didn't add a gender that doesn't even exist.

ah i get it constantly on the grind

i know that trans rights might be hard to accept, but personally i think that it’s not too hard to accept them. like sure it may not make sense to some of y’all (i am tired of explaining sex and gender), it’s still basic human respect. we all have different wants and needs, and for many trans people changing their gender is a huge need. once again, we look at the amount of suicides. i agree they’re not gonna be saved from the government and that is sad. i think we can come to a compromise here. i heavily disagree with the people who think they’re braver than the military. i do not have the privilege, power, or knowledge to compare LGBTQ people and the fսcking military, but i tell you, if someone said the lgbtq is braver than the military, they’re bouta wish they knew military training cuz i will try my best to kick their ass. also i’m chinese so uh, that’s kinda awkward. i agree that certain things and people in our community is fսcking ass, and there’s a lot of it. these days everything is problematic in some way. i agree with most of them but what i agree with MORE is that no rep is perfect rep, and if there’s no rep and they’re not straight up being horrible, we shouldn’t complain too much. Mr Beast did not deserve the hate.

Honestly, all i’m asking is for you to please show some basic human respect and consider the people. Like maybe someone had a hard time coming out, maybe they can show off a flag or a pin, and trans people? There’s a lot of research on them, but even if you decide not to dive into the hellhole, i think they should be allowed to choose what to do with their bodies.

basic human respect, i can do. for me, it's the line of someone being gay and that's it. i could care less if you're gay, i just cannot stand people who use sexuality as a conversation starter *cough cough* or transgenderism. now im not about to go in public and call someone a slur out of nowhere, no. i'll only act if someone makes the first wrong move

ok i get it, but again with the flags, they symbolize shit and honestly some of them look pretty fire. it’s kinda like the country flags except they have better color schemes and unfortunately no dragons.

...i will not get into the argument about flags, im tired enough as is, and i've got fanfiction to write...

alright toodles have a great night

also she's asleep rn, im not waking her up for this, that'd be a dick move on my end.

alright, so maybe do it tomorrow if you still wanna get her opinion on this. i think getting a third party can help both of us see new perspectives.

knowing her she'll either shove me to the side and pout that i was doing this instead of telling her how much i love her or look at this with the upmost confusion

well that’s pretty funny tbh but maybe she could have a good opinion on this

because it's gay.

i'd rather be held at gunpoint with the risk of losing everything I've ever loved than be gay

ok but when will you stop rubbing it in our face that you’re straight

like we’re waving around a flag because y’all still don’t accept us 💀 what excuse do you have

flag is annoying, stop waving it and we'll be cool

so do you also think sports fans should stop wearing the jerseys of their team?

also most of us aren’t waving it, it’s just hung up somewhere so you know what our sexuality is

i say again, im not the one with a giant flag. also what does sports have to do with this?

yeah, you’re not seeing someone waving it around everyday unless it’s a protest

sports? well they’re representing who they are with the jerseys. you want that to stop too? no jerseys?

Sports are different. while I don't care much for sports, that's actually got a purpose and people have a reason for supporting their favorite team.
with gays, that's just being annoying. we get it, you're gay. keep it to yourself. not everyone has to know your sexuality. do you see that many straight people using a flag of their own? definitely not as much, i can tell you that for free.
Quick rant here: Me personally, I couldn't care less if you're gay or not. But saying your gay as the first thing to someone or using it as a conversation starter, that ticks me off. It's even more annoying if you're trying to give someone an eyesore with the clothing your wearing. Gay people and bi people in general? I'm okay with until they say or do the wrong thing. Hell, I'm dating someone who's asexual, and not ONCE has she brought up lgbbq. She's pretty, she's honest, and it was only one time when she told me she was asexual. I didn't care, I still love her. Lets use that as an example real quick: You're having a normal conversation with someone, you have no idea they're gay. I'll say something after time has passed like "So, you find someone yet?" and they could respond with "Yeah, my boyfriend Alex." I wouldn't mind them being gay because they're a normal person who gave me an appropriate answer. Now, lets change the situation a bit: I'm chilling with this other guy having a conversation, and I'll ask the same question. If he were to respond with "Oh, I'm gay." then I'd be a little annoyed, but not enough to just stand up and walk away.
Now if I said one word to them like "Hello" and they immediately say "I have a boyfriend" or "I'm gay", then you can bet your ass that I'm either gonna stand up and walk in the other direction, or that I'm gonna start ranting on and on about how dumb it is to start a conversation like that.

Now that that's out of the way, lemme sum this up for you in case you aren't gonna read all this: If you're gay, okay. Nobody will give you a hi-five or congratulate you. You'll only annoy a lot of people. Just act like a normal human, speak to other people like a normal human, and for f**ks sake, don't ever talk to me about transgender or I will leave you on the floor with a broken nose.

i get your point but consider the following

if you’re gay and you have a flag, since society is dumb, some gays need a safe space to feel accepted. many, and I MEAN MANY are on paranoia every fսcking day because they don’t know who to trust. getting rid of the flags will just cause more insecurity and confuse the ever living hell out of people. flags also symbolize the fսcking struggles we went through. straight people didn’t go through jack shit. i think after that we deserve a flag. if you use you’re gay as a conversation starter then nobody cares. legit that’s ass. i mean as a joke sure but if i come up to you and you say “i’m gay that’ll be awkward. honestly the “i have a boyfriend” thing applies to everyone. if a girl said that i would be walking away as well. if someone is gay and they talk about gay stuff, like maybe the politician status of gay rights (which is really going to hell) and you’re somehow annoyed by them sharing the shit they have to go through, then you, my friend, are a huge asshole and shouldn’t be part of society. i mean if they talk all the time that’s ass but if they just have one conversation complaining rightfully about how bad the LGBTQ community is treated and you’re like “omg that’s the only thing you talk about” then just stfu.

about time they got removed. also it sounds to me like you're trying to compare the trans' trauma to the Indian trauma.

Lets take this into perspective: The Indians were being forced out of their homeland and eventually being killed because the Englishman came along and claimed the land as theirs.

The Indians had no choice. Did they fight back? Yes. Were they very successful? They had a few wins here and there, but no, they were not victorious in the end.

Now we look at the Trans Removal Act: These people made the choice to either get a dick attached to themselves or get it chopped off. That was THEIR choice. Did they know the consequences? Most likely. Did that stop them? No.

You're comparing the Indians, who had no choice in the matter, to trans people, who clearly made a choice.

lol no, i’m just saying they might go through an eradication too

i ain’t comparing them ffs it was kinda a pun at best, using the word “removal” the indians have definitely gone through shit, but you are clearly invalidating the fact that trans people also have.

trans people feel really trapped in their bodies. they feel very insecure and many wish to kill themselves daily because of their condition.

they knew the result would be them being happy. it isnt their fault that the government is trying to do an entire genocide of them.

*ahem*

The bombing of Pearl Harbor
The attacks of 9-11
The Holocaust
African Slavery
The Boston Massacre
Bombing of Hiroshima and Nagasaki
The Indian Removal Act

these are only a few examples.
you mean to tell me that the lgbt, a community that revolves their whole base around being slightly different from society, has gone through more trauma than everyone during these times?

bruh no what the f**k 💀

i’m saying they’ve both gone through trauma and shouldn’t be compared. nobody should have their trauma compared.

also the trans people are kinda going through a removal act right now jsyk

now answer my other points

if you can't tell by now i dont care

yeah i can tell and idc much too

its night for me but whatever

aight bye have a great night

i personally disagree.
that's all i'm gonna say

ok but still, respect them.

i disagree because the LGBTQ community still has twice the amount of days

the flags are one of the main reasons for your "struggles".

and i put that in quotes because there are people who have suffered greater than the lgbt

no they’re not, it’s throughout history. y’all are just targeting the flags because you’re homophobic. they’re not even a big deal. if y’all unironically are getting mad over some flags, then y’all are the biggest snowflakes in history.

bro, the suicide rate for trans people are super high, throughout history LGBTQ people have been oppressed, trans people nowadays are f**king dying because of new laws TODAY, and yeah there are people that have suffered more, but many people have suffered more than black people too. should we disregard their suffering?

ok lol

your argument is invalid and you’re a dumb bitch

ok hahaha

aight toodles now get out i’m talking with someone that can actually form a decent argument

"Struggles we went through." Gay people have a month and veterans have a day.

classic argument! unfortunately you have not done your research.

why don’t we take a look at all the months that celebrate the military?

veterans day
memorial day
independence day
remembrance day
armed forces day
flag day
patriot day
national vietnam war day or something like that
pearl harbor remembrance day
national airborne day
victory day
maritime day

and let’s not forget about
military appreciation month (may)
military spouse month (march)
military child month (april)

Are y’all arguing or writing essays to each other 💀

both, it’s quite fun

Let's break this down real quick:

I say again, trans people made their choice, and now they have to deal with the consequences of their actions whether they like it or not.

maybe they should've seeked therapy or called 988 if they considered listening to the black guy with lightning

and about the gov thing, there wouldn't even be a mass genocide if they hadn't switched teams or made such a big deal about "who they are" in the first place. They might be happy now, but not for much longer if this act goes through

trans people made a choice because it’s what makes them happy. are ou saying they’re in the wrong for the government trying to eradicate them?

they did seek therapy and most of them tells them to support their choices.

you’re right, the government wouldn’t have tried to eradicate them. that’s really not their fault. imagjne the government trying to ban interracial marriage. that must be their fault and they shouldn’t‘ve made a big deal about wanting to marry another race.

trans people suffer from a disorder. yes. i said it. it’s gender dysphoria, and the cure is… you guessed it! hormones and cutting off their dick!

gender affirmation surgery only has two percent of people regret it, making it the least regretted type of surgery.

I cannot even begin to imagine the amount of bullshit I am seeing right now.

Trans might have done it because they're happy, but that doesn't make it right either. Say that someone decided to kill another guy because it made them happy.

Now, I'm not saying that killing someone is even close to surgically changing your gender. But, I am saying that certain choices in life are frowned upon by many people, whether it makes you happy or not.

If people are supporting them and telling them they should chop off their dick, then they need to see a professional therapist who can actually help them rather than whoever is giving them a push in the wrong direction.

there is an alternative cure to that: coping. you could literally be doing something with your life rather than crying all day about how God decided you are to be born with a cock.

those 2% have the right reasons to regret it, the other 98% is deranged and has no idea what's yet to come for them

trans people aren’t killing anyone???

certain choices are frowned upon blah blah blah well they’re not frowned upon by scientists and professionals are they?

buddy the professional therapists ARE the ones telling them to chop off their dick. you’re in huge denial right now.

you’re right there is an alternative! unfortunately it is very stressful and the alternative doesn’t really harm anyone. the trans people are happy and y’all are the ones bitching about it.

oh now you’re pushing your beliefs into others? wow. how rude. how about you go talk to a professional scientist? like not one that teaches seventh grade biology. i mean one that teaches college level biology.

i never said the person was trans either, i just said someone in general. 💀

yes most of them are

then we need better therapists who actually know what they're doing

the trans are the ones crying about their birth gender in the first place

that was just an example, and that's exactly why i cannot stand you people in the first place. you're so quick to make assumptions and make the other person look bad when in reality you're no better than the rest of us. look around, the world is falling apart, and it's because of shit like this that's only making it worse.

now let me tell you something right here, right now: this very argument would not have started if you had just kept your mouth shut and ignored the post

ah ok

no they’re not

no we don’t, you’re in huge denial. you think you’re in the right and you’re denying actual people who have studied for this stuff.

the trans people are crying about their birth and the government is kinda silencing them. that’s not good.

you’re right it’s because of shit like this. i wonder what would happen to make all this better. oh right, maybe stop oppressing groups? hmm.

you’re right, it wouldn’t have started and i assume you’re either running out of arguments or just tired of this, both of which i understand completely. unfortunately for you i can go on forever and i enjoy arguments like this. you have well constructed arguments. well you did until the thing fell apart.

atp im waiting for you to stop using the same argument of "trans are suffering and it's the government's fault"

please, do come up with something else, because this is getting old real quick

they’re being denied a lot of the shit, i don’t see why it’s getting old if you can easily counter it.

i mean i’ll move on if you can get a good point in, i’ve got two more arguments up my sleeve.

f**king hell, i really am gonna be here all night... lets get this over with.

The LGBT movement started out as a gay rights act. Wasn't big back then, most people were pretty chill about it while others didn't care. However when we step into transgenderism, that's when things will get out of hand. Sure, they felt cooped up and they wanted to be someone else. We've all had that feeling, especially at a young age. I remember a time when I got beat by my mom's second husband and i wanted to be a Power Ranger so i could teach him a lesson (this was back when i was 5). Now, people are not used to change, we as a species find it very difficult to change our ways of life. So you can imagine how much of an impact this whole thing had on EVERYONE, because we weren't used to having someone protest for gay and trans rights. Hell, there's a large chunk of us who still aren't wanting that change, and it's because we're not used to it. We're used to the same routine every day from the moment we wake up to the moment our heads touch the pillows for the night. Things would only get worse from that point: they'd start asking for more. Attention, respect, a whole ass month. As the years went by, the LGBT went from a small protest for gay rights to a community of "gay femboy bottoms" and "chubby uwu emo trans demigirl". We went from the best years of our lives to what could be considered the country's next Great Depression. And I can almost guarantee you that the further we go into the future, it's gonna get a hell of a lot worse. We could literally be on a highway to hell by the end of the year.

all of what you said is just absurd. first off, what change exactly are you afraid of? trans people existing? fighting for rights? how exactly is that in the way to hell? the lgbtq community is definitely not “gay femboy bottoms” even though that’s definitely a part of it. so what if they’re like that? it ain’t hurting anyone. you’re just bigoted. honestly. like if they wanna be cringe, then you can just let them be cringe but to deny trans people the right to their own body, while the benefits of their modification is backed by professionals is absolute shit. you don’t like the movement? too bad, this doesn’t prove anything. you don’t like the femboys? too bad, i also don’t like them. that’s why i avoid them. transgender people have been around for a while, you can clearly see try at if you just looked it the fսck up. it’s just being more accepted today.

also, ask your girlfriend what she thinks of this conversation. i just want a third viewpoint.

wtf are you guys talking about

wtf are yall talking about

gay people

nah jk trans people