i don't even know what to do

So I'm dating this guy and he's really nice, can be kinda annoying but whatever. Then my non binary best friend is super supportive of me and him. I love them to death. We talk more than I talk to my boyfriend. Recently I have been getting closer to them, like a LOT. I want to tell them that I like them. But l'm dating the guyyyy.
ALSO I thought I was a Asexual Heteromantic. But since I like them, I don't know what I am anymore. It's all so confusing and I'm just asking for advice.
-fungirl101

I think you should try and tell them how you feel, but i understand that it can be scary. If you want to date your friend and they say they like you back you should break up with the guy, and if your friend doesn't feel the same you should stay with the guy. But i get that can be a hard decision to make tho, hope it goes well ❤️

okay thank you so much <3

No problem <3

update, it turns out that the guy was cheating on me with a RANDOM girl. asking her to send him nudes and crap like that.

just so u know i wouldnt do that ;)

wait so is this still a thing? cuz... uh... you know...

Valerie had good advice so I don't have anything to add but let me know what happens!

update, it turns out that the guy was cheating on me with a RANDOM girl. asking her to send him nudes and crap like that.

dang O.O
hope you are okay
hope the girl he was soliciting is okay too
<3 <3 <3

she was hitting on him to, so she's fine.

okay! great news, I told them I had a crush and it was someone they were really close to. They guessed for a bit then they ( i think they were joking around) asked if it was them. I kinda started blushing a bit then turned to talk to someone else.
Later on I gave them a note just saying "yes". I waited for the next period,( I have the next period w/ them) and they gave me the note back saying " umm so uh me too". -///v///-

AWWWWW THATS SO CUTE!!

thanks:)))

Wow, sorry to hear that. Have you asked you friend yet?

no... i just don't want to mess up the friendship we have. I think I might wait.

That's alright, but i when you do ask them i hope they say yes

thank you <3

okay! great news, I told them I had a crush and it was someone they were really close to. They guessed for a bit then they ( i think they were joking around) asked if it was them. I kinda started blushing a bit then turned to talk to someone else.
Later on I gave them a note just saying "yes". I waited for the next period,( I have the next period w/ them) and they gave me the note back saying " umm so uh me too". -///v///-

OMG YAY :D
I'm so happy for you! <3

Thank you :)