This could go in History Memes too. There are a lot of stories about Hitler’s Psychopathology (that’s the title of a book I have, co-authored by a psychiatrist). The allies predicted his end using behavioural scienctists and psychologists/psychiatrists. He was an all-or-nothing person (the scorched earth policy was a nationalised expression of this).
He was a seriously twisted and broken person.
Perhaps she didn’t like the idea of giving a “golden shower” (his alleged kink)?