You don't have to look like anyone else, just be you.
If she won't let you do that, then don't go. If you still wanna go, tell other people, she might have to let you wear it. Its not like she gets to decide how you do your makeup
SO MY MOM GOT MAD THAT I DID MY MAKEUP WITH THE MAKEUP I BOUGHT- SHE SAID IT WAS TOO EMO/EXTRA/RED FOR CHRISTMAS AND IF I DON’T TAKE IT OFF I DON’T GET TO GO TO THE PARTY; I THINK I DID PRETTY WELL BUT MOM WANTS ME TO TRY AS HARD AS POSSIBLE TO LOOK LIKE EVERYONE ELSE. BUT I HATE DOING THAT