You just basically described yourself as the guy who takes the long and romantic way around asking a girl out [or are too shy to ask], likes just hugging or holding hands, you like your coffee black with almost nothing in it, you try to avoid sex and only do it when she wants to, you always put her first even when it makes you miserable, you will try to put in cute little gestures such as cooking for her or cleaning, and your favorite season in autumn.