You think your special? Girls feel the same damn way but they do it anyway. Do you have any idea how miserable and insecure women are? Yet they pressure themselves to at least try, that's the only difference. Im not saying men arent as insecure but I do see a lot of men use it as an excuse to not try and at least practice socializing. For most guys that struggle to flirt with girls, they need to start getting better at just talking to people in general. Obviously it's a painful and awkward experience, that's why you have to keep doing it no matter what. A lot of guys seem to think they can just spend 8 hours a day playing video games and talking to their bros on discord for the rest of their life and the reality is that they cant.