I kinda explained it in one of my last things but-
my mom had this asshole ex I'll call p. He was narcissistic, and eventually they broke up. He constantly tried to apologize (with horrible apologys) and never left us alone. He left us alone for about 7 months, and then he created AN ENTIRE NEW EMAIL just so he could ask her to spend holloween with him. Totally ruined everything.
Sorry for ranting