Sadly, They wont listen to me =(

They said they hate themselves like everyone else, I try and say they are smart, beautiful, nice, cool, amazing, and the best yet she hates themself and I am still in this situation so now I'm sad because I don't know what I would do without them because they have done everything for me! She just assumes everyone hates her without proof.... now I'm sad...

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why am I relating to this
well, I can try to explain why they feel the way they do.
for example, I have a disrupting feeling that every kindness that is done to me is done with an empty heart, like people are being too nice to me to actually mean what they do.
does that make sense?

Oh....

say that she gets hugs-

Yeah..