I’m also apart if the fandom, but I’m not the bad side of the fandom- I do theories and watch the show for fun- but then I see the rest of the fandom doing weird shit (like Momo x Mineta) and just think “why? Why ruin such an innocent thing?”
I can’t deny that a LOT of the fandom is a dumpster fire. However, without the fandom, we wouldn’t have the “incorrect quote” memes, or actually cool fanart. Again, I’m not saying that the fandom is GOOD, I’m just saying that it’s not all bad.