Thanks, although I'm more of the thought that your look doesn't matter, but rather who you are.
Like the great mathematician Al-Juarismi once said:
"If he has ethics, then his value is = 1.
If it is also intelligent, add a zero and its value will be = 10.
If it is also rich, add another 0 and it will be = 100.
If above all that is also a beautiful person, add another 0 and its value will be = 1000.
But, if you lose the 1, which corresponds to ethics, you will lose all its value because only the zeros will remain."
Yeah, it's using masculine pronouns, but you get the idea.