Your parents sound shitty
Well I had signs of it when I was two and a half (also when I got my diabetes) and my mom tried to look for anyone to find what was wrong with me, but in October I had it successfully diagnosed that I have autism, luckily I'm high of the spectrum (which in this case, a good thing) and it explains a lot of things in my past
And btw my dad didn't have a shit... Kinda