YOU SEE THE HURT, THE ANGER AND THE FRUSTRATION IN THE OTHER PERSON, BUT... EVERYTHING YOU TRY TO SAY TO MAKE THEM FEEL BETTER ONLY MAKES THEM FEEL WORSE. AND NOW YOU HATE YOURSELF EVEN MORE FOR TRYING. AND YOU ARE LEFT IN A STATE OF BEING EQUIVALENT TO WAKING UP IN THE MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT PARALYZED TO MOVE ANYTHING BUT YOUR EYES.