Optimistic; Unfortunately, I have some bad news. My SO broke up with me this morning, because they weren't ready for a relationship. I'm disappointed, but I also understand not being ready. But I want to use this as an opportunity to get my message out. No matter how bad or negative a situation seems, it's always a blessing in disguise. Always use an unfortunate situation as an opportunity to become a better person, and always, ALWAYS, make sure that you don't let yourself deteriorate into nothingness.