Do not rescue someone who does not want to be rescued - JP

Do not try to rescue someone who does not want to be rescued. And be very careful about rescuing someone who does. The probability that they will take you down, compared to you elevating them, is very, very high. It's like "Look, you're aiming down SO HARD that I am not coming along with you. And the reason I'm not is to tell you that what you're doing is so terrible that I will even violate our kinship to oppose it." - Jordan Peterson