When you are suffering, and other people notice, some people will find ways to hurt you even more because they are suffering as well, while other people will find ways to hurt you because they lack sympathy, empathy, intelligence, and maturity,....these people likely are arrogant, and/or have a big ego. It's always good to keep in mind that the ignorant people who lack intelligence and find pleasure in others mental/physical suffering are not worth your time,.....sooner or later they will suffer as well, and by that time, you will be in a better place,...that's when it hits them hard,...that's when they regret it....