I low key feel invalid which is weird cause, I think all y’all are valid so why don’t I think I am???

It happens to the best of us for numerous reasons, imposter syndrome, just feeling like it doesn't make sense, someone telling you it's wrong/invalid etc. It's okay if you don't feel like your valid. (Which you are!) You'll figure it out

Someone didn’t exactly say I was invalid for being aro but they really implied it and tried to make me date them.

That sucks, glad you knew your boundaries! No one should be forced to date someone, especially aro people! It's okay to lose attraction to people, and no one should say otherwise. Hope you're okay!

Thanks, I’m okay now but still a little mad at the person.