Yeah like for me I realized I was ace when I realized I haven't really felt like "I wanna have sex with that person" ever before also I just find the concept of sex to be gross and I don't think I'd do it for enjoyment
That makes a lot of sense, being aceflux
Arousal occurs every so often, since I am mostly through puberty, and sometimes I can be aroused and also disgusted at the idea of the lovedance