i used to be bi and it took forever to figure out. then i woke up one night and was like, "oh sh!t that person was non binary, they were flirting with me, and i liked it.
I realized I was crushing on someone who was trans and I was like “now hold on a minute-“ so I googled “sexuality liking anyone no matter what gender” and pansexual came up so I read into it more and yeah. 💗💛💙