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Blank White Template | i need help; i just found out that my best friend is transphobic. Im cis, but im bisexual and idk if i should associate myself with her anymore. Our families are friends so i would still see her often if i stopped talking to her, idk what to do | image tagged in blank white template | made w/ Imgflip meme maker
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2 ups, 3y
I propose two options.
One, talk to her about it and let her know how it makes you feel. Sometimes people don’t realize what they’re doing or realize it hurts their friends.
Or two, talk to your parents about it and see if they could help you kind of close them out of your life. (If they’re not homophobic as well.)
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2 ups, 3y
You should probably talk with her about it, Let it out
1 up, 3y
Dont talk to her for a while then actually tell her the problem and leave 😊
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1 up, 3y
Depends on what type of transphobe they are, I don’t recommend never talking to them again or even canceling your friendship, as long as you are happy with it, but if the time comes where you have to step in if they’re bullying someone for it, that’s when I’d talk with them about how they can’t do that, and that they are going to cause someone to commit suicide over something that may seem small to them. Make sure you don’t act like you’re trying to say they can’t dislike trans people for being trans, which still is wrong, but it’s not as bad of a thing as bullying, but rather make them know that they have to be kinder to trans people, even if that just means not talking to them whatsoever
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1 up, 3y
yeah id talk to ger about it-
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You realize these are the people that keep them from having a job, and even after that, they don’t get paid what they should, sometimes not enough to keep good on the table
0 ups, 3y
*food
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Maybe in a perfect world, but it’s not as simple as that, there’s a real chance that their friend could start bullying/offending someone because they are trans/non-binary or whatever, and they’d need to be stopped, telling them that they can do it just because they disagree with them, if they were transphobic and didn’t let it stop them from trying to be kind or just neutral to trans people even though they really want to tell them they’re wrong or something, I would agree with you, but that doesn’t seem to be the case, based on the fact that the person posting this knows they’re transphobic, and when they start doing something that risks pushing someone to the limit, that’s when it gets dangerous. In the worst case, someone’s life could be on the line, and friends should let other friends know that they’re doing something wrong, even if it jeopardizes their friendship. Disagreeing with someone else’s opinion is very different than their choice being wrong, there’s no opinion involved, causing someone mental struggling is wrong
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2 ups, 3y
So, We should go back to making women and black people slaves and put decapitated heads on sticks?

Old ain't always Gold, Y'know.
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You clearly haven't ever been name called. Most of the time, name calling doesn't hurt, but what gets through my armour is "Oh my gosh [Real Name], could you get any slower?" It hurts to be called slow, or whatever hurts, and one of my teachers (my favourite so far), who in fact is part of an older generation, disagrees with this whole heartly. Oh and before you start saying she should follow god, she does
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0 ups, 3y
You really need to take responsibility rather than just saying "It was all Jesus!"
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i need help; i just found out that my best friend is transphobic. Im cis, but im bisexual and idk if i should associate myself with her anymore. Our families are friends so i would still see her often if i stopped talking to her, idk what to do