Saying "Hey, i have a disorder" and giving it a positive name is a tool to separate you from others. What you call ableism, I call awareness. Being aware that you have a problem is the first step to overcoming it, and whining about people saying you're not capable of certain things is not awareness. It's blissful stupidity, the mindset of "i am what i am" taken too far. You're a great person, but creating a fictional divide in the public consciousness, creating a problem of what is solving one, is not that great.