It's not. Youre only 3 hours in. If you think you can make it there, then if you put your mind to it, you can make it back. Nothing good is going to come of this. You will not make it all the way to your friend's place. You will either be found, or worse, not found. the way things are, you're not reaching your dad. No way, no how. It's not safe, nor is it worth it at all.