Is a 19 year old who is online dating a 13 year old pedophilia if they don't talk about anything sexual? (this is not related to anyone, just a random shower thought I had yesterday); Say you have seeker therapy and nothing works. Then you meet someone online that you trust more than anyone irl bc you have been rejected socially. And say said person asks you out (online mind you)...then you guys disclose each other's age, and it's 6 years apart (ones 13 ones 19, gender doesn't matter here). All they talk about is just life/work and don't talk about anything sexual or send pics and/or do ERPS... basically, just someone you talk to online, but say "I love you" to...is that really pedophilia?