I'm just gonna remain neutral on this one. You two have to stop fighting, like bruh- π
You can be annoying sometimes, yes. But you can also be nice at times and you're funny too. Some people seek attention at some point too, sometimes they can't help it. I still get depression but I've stopped cutting myself for awhile because a couple friends of mine who I care about who also cares about me plus my fiance can't stand me hurting myself, my fiance's stopped too but that's just getting off topic.
Everybody has their one enemy, but going at each other's throats ain't gonna solve anything, so you two should just stop arguing with each other