I've out gayed myself with this temp

okay so- r a n t i identify as a demiboy, and i just really fxcking hate it when i say something about wanting to dress in Alternate and people keep calling me a femboy or emo or goth, and insist if i identify with something male than i have to be a femboy to dress feminine. Like it took me a long time to even get comfortable with the idea of identifying as a demiboy even though i knew for months that fit me best. And then it took me even longer to tell myself it was okay to wear skirts. I just dont like the term femboy when being referred to, it just sounds wrong to me (not hating on any actual femboys-) And while i was talking about this i just wanted to say i hate it when like a friend corrects someone on their friends pronouns and the person goes "oh but shes not trans" like dude im right here-; anyway i just wanted to talk about that- thanks for coming to my ted talk