hello fellow humans; this may sound absurd but it's worth a try. i've been thinking and i want to start over. i recently moved due to family problems and i think the move gave me a chance to restart. i'm moving schools next year and everyone at my current school hates me so i think i should try and be a better person. i'm disbanding my band and starting a new one on my own, im going to accept myself more by taking care of myself. i always had terrible self-care and that's going to change. if you could start referring to me as Valerie as i am going to go by she/they pronouns from this point on i would greatly appreciate you.