This is me with romance right now. Am I Bi, Pan, Poly, Homo? Am I demi? Is what I feel even a want for a romantic relationship, or just close friendships? I don't know.
If I had to guess, I'm either aro, or demi-pan. (It's personality that really matters to me.)
So yeah, I can relate.
I DO know that I recognize as asexual though.