GETTING EXCITED ABOUT SOMETHING ONLY TO BE DEVASTATED WHEN THE GOOD THING DOESN’T HAPPEN; ASSUMING DISAPPOINTMENT AS THE RESULT, HOPING TO BE PLEASANTLY SURPRISED IF IT ISN’T; NOT GETTING EXCITED ABOUT SOMETHING IN CASE THE GOOD THING DOESN’T HAPPEN; GETTING EXCITED KNOWING THAT IF THE OUTCOME IS DISAPPOINTING, YOU’LL DEAL WITH IT AND MOVE ON