It’s impossible for me to describe my gender, it barely makes sense for me, how could I possibly begin explaining it to others, but what I can tell you is that I don’t think that there is no requirement for being male or female, just whichever feels more accurate to you in your mind, and if neither feels like it’s who you are, you are non-binary. You could disagree with me, but this is how I see it. On the other hand, I know an enby or two that aren’t an enby for the reason most people are, they’re enby just because they want to be cool, and they tell people that that’s the reason they're non-binary. I still respect their pronouns, but I feel that it’s disrespectful to anyone who is truly non-binary