accept my child and understand that there are some things about their gender identity that i don't understand, but i'll support them anyway; MY MOTHER; be homophobic and transphobic and make arguments saying that all people who don't identify with their birth gender know it from when they were born, even though i know nothing about how trans people think as i'm not trans, and also say that for all my child's life they have enjoyed being a girl and just generally be a bad parent and make my child cry; MY MOTHER