COLD IN MY PROFESSIONS – WARM IN MY FRIENDSHIPS – I WISH, MY DEAR LAURENS, IT WERE IN MY POWER, BY ACTIONS RATHER THAN WORDS, TO CONVINCE YOU THAT I LOVE YOU. I SHALL ONLY TELL YOU THAT 'TILL YOU BADE US ADIEU, I HARDLY KNEW THE VALUE YOU HAD TAUGHT MY HEART TO SET UPON YOU. INDEED, MY FRIEND, IT WAS NOT WELL DONE. YOU KNOW THE OPINION I ENTERTAIN OF MANKIND, AND HOW MUCH IT IS MY DESIRE TO PRESERVE MYSELF FREE FROM PARTICULAR ATTACHMENTS, AND TO KEEP MY HAPPINESS INDEPENDENT OF THE CAPRICE OF OTHERS. YOU SHOULD NOT HAVE TAKEN ADVANTAGE OF MY SENSIBILITY, TO STEAL INTO MY AFFECTIONS WITHOUT MY CONSENT. BUT AS YOU HAVE DONE IT, AND AS WE ARE GENERALLY INDULGENT TO THOSE WE LOVE, I SHALL NOT SCRUPLE TO PARDON THE FRAUD YOU HAVE COMMITTED, ON ONE CONDITION; THAT FOR MY SAKE, IF NOT FOR YOUR OWN, YOU WILL ALWAYS CONTINUE TO MERIT THE PARTIALITY, WHICH YOU HAVE SO ARTFULLY INSTILLED INTO ME.