They had a conversation last night that made me feel uncomfortable, but I’m in da closet so I didn’t say anything.

o m g -
yes
my mom's best friend is gay and she's super supportive of him and his boyfriend
but when i come out as non-binary she will still me a she or her daughter even though i've c o m e o u t she tells me that i can't make my own decisions about that right now because i'm too young and how it's just me being insecure about my body
b u t i mean she does respect my friends (some of them) their pronouns and even calls my one friend by their name and not their deadname
so it's just me-?
which makes me feel really confused about her standpoint on this but um yuh

Y e s (to some extent) - my mom is the same way with gender dysphoria. When I "came out" (she looked through my tablet) she said she'll support me, but not to put labels on myself or anything because im so young and this is probably just a phase. Like my mom uses my preferred name a pronouns, but she doesnt make my sister do it or anything, and then when i asked for a binder my mom said i just need to get used to my body and how wanting to change it isnt the way and everyone going through puberty wants to change their body ect.

oml yeah. my neighbors are les or bi (cant remember) and my parents are good friends with them

Ya

my dad is lowkey homophobic and my mom is 100% like this-

Everyone in this stream can assure you, transgenderism was proven in adults AND kids in multiple studys. Same for attraction

Yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes i know this feeling

*ahem*

My parents have a friend whos trans and they respect his pronouns and name but when it comes to my being trans, i get deadnamed and misgendered every day, my mom tries getting me to think im genderfluid, but i know im not. They try combining my deadname with my chosen name (which is Mikey) and the other name i was experimenting with (Axili) and i hate when they do bc its still technically deadnaming. My mom refuses to get me a binder (im a freaking c cup. You can only imagine the dysphoria) bc she lists medical reasons why she wont get one for me when my bf makes sure i domt bind too long (i do the double sports bra thing) and despite the QUUTE LITERAL TRANS FLAG IN MY ROOM, no one seems to remember that their oldest daughter" is actually their oldest son