Its basically just substituting the "default pronouns" so I'm not dysphoric and still feel comfortable- (/hj)

I mostly pick pronouns for ocs by picking it/itself or they/them. I pick It/itself if the oc is cutesy and soft, which would basically be she/her. and they/them, I usually pick those for tough, hot or masc ocs. So that represents he/him. It just helps me from being dysphoric while roleplaying.