help!

Wait- i take it back, not lesbian, but bisexual

it's probably best not to if you know they won't be okay with it
when you can move out and live on your own maybe tell them but while they control your ability to get food and stay safe it's not a good idea

okay...i'll stick with my friend and you guys who actually accept me. i'm literally crying rn...

it'll be okay

thank you. im gonna follow you.

yw

Ask "Hey, How would you react if I was a lesbian?"
However, Say it with a very casual tone, Like you're actually wondering but not actually lesbian

yess

yess?

i will do this and btw i followed u

Oh! Thanks!
I wish you the best of luck!

thanks! not gonna do it now, its 1:48 in the morning

Uh, It that a bit late?

HAHA YEAH I haven't had anysleep tonight

Please get some rest or if you're already asleep and see this in the morning then please tell me you got some sleep!

okay i will. thank you, and goodnight! I'll try to sleep a bit.

You'll only feel worse if you stay up 🙂👍❤️

no, apparently not. I'm got a few hours and i woke up extremely confused and my stomach and head hurting like hell

How close minded are your parents?

idk and i changed it to im bi

Will your parents accept defeat in an argument to their child or anyone?

No

Well this complicates things, if you live your life in secret and don’t tell them anything about your love life or any crushes, they might get suspicious, and if they get suspicious and ask something like why don’t you tell us anything about your love life, any crushes, tell them no, especially if it’s a lie because now you have some leverage to use on them. If in the future they found out, you’ve got them where you want them. They will get mad at you for lying, the will be mad and ask why, and you tell them that it’s because they wouldn’t understand or give the support you’d need, it may not go any further, but more likely they will be mad, which is when you use a simple guilt trip like asking if they love you, if they’re any sort of respectable parents they will say yes, otherwise, this will not work. If they say yes, you should say something like well I’m not straight so I don’t think you do love me, you just love what you want me to be, not what I actually am. This might not work, but I don’t know anything that will work without fail

Thank you. my mom got one of my bfs, and knew we broke up, but didn't know he was super toxic.

Well how old are you? If you're worried your parents wont be supportive, for your safety you might want to wait till you're old enough to live on your own incase they migh kick you out-

im 11 soon gonna turn 12

You could hide a note in a place they would only look in when they are at work to give them time to process while you are at school.

oh, i could try that. bit risky tho...one's in the army one's training to be a phlebotomist.

Oh,uh, sorry that isn't much help. I tried.

it's fine i'll try it

Well you might wanna wait till you're around 17-18 if you think they'll react badly and fear for your safety, or maybe have a friend you can stay with. And they might not react that badly since you're so young, but you should probably wait till you're at least 13-14 to come out

You could watch an lgbtq+ movie with them (innocently) and after ask what they thought of it?

omg yesssss

HOI im a christian! i do belive lgbtq goes to hell maybe try giving them hints i am bi tho but im trying to get gods acceptance somehow try not to tell them straight up at first but if it dont work then tell them porudly!

I’m an atheist, but I’m sure if you do good in the world, you’ll be accepted regardless of who you fall in love with.