This is what I mean when I say I don't "come out" to people - it just happens in everyday conversation...

This is like my friend… one time her parents were talking and he just said “you know I wouldn’t mind being any gender”

Well, I don't see the point in dividing the world into seperate boxes for gender because there can never be. enough boxes... Why don't we just get rid of the concept altogether? Yes, some people are born with one set of gonads and others with a different set and that's not gonna change. But even biology isn't black and white on the issue and we have already proven that those are loosely connected to how a person acts or feels at best... Gender is only a thing because people insist on labelling people as one thing or another and then expecting them to fit that description. Why can't we just accept that people are different and move on? 🤷

Many people see it this way and so far all I've had contact with come to a different conclusion about it. 😅 Some just go back to identifying with their sex instead of their gender, some identify as agender or apogender, some as poly- or pangender,... I just can't agree with the whole concept so I don't identify with any of them (which is ironically close to the definition for apogender, so if someone *really needs a box* to put me in I guess that would be it - although I don't see it as a gender, rather a way of thinking about gender). But that's just me and everybody can do whatever feels best to them. 😊