I called my mom incompetent, but I meant that she doesn't listen. I mix up definitions sometimes. I told her this, but she doesn't care. After telling her it's like the time she said something rude, but meant something else, she finally hit me with the most bullshit apology I've ever heard. She told me to go to my room and I went to it, and angrily slammed on my dresser. She asked what the noise was, and I didn't respond, she immediately talked to dad, who was om the phone, about vaccuming.