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Ugh ahh ugh help me I’m conflicted I don’t wanna be hurt and made fun of | HELP. I KNOW I ASK FOR HELP A LOT ON THIS STREAM. BUT WHAT SHOULD I DO IF I HAVE THE NUMBER OF A GUY I LIKE BUT IDK IF HE LIKES GUYS? I WANNA ASK HIM OUT BUT UGH IDK IF HE LIKES GUYS (I MEAN I’M NOT TECHNICALLY A GUY I’M JUST USING IT FOR LACK OF BETTER WORDS.) BUT WE GET ALONG SO WELL AND HE’S CUTE. HELP ME | image tagged in lgbtq,help me | made w/ Imgflip meme maker
432 views 11 upvotes Made by That1DepressedKid 3 years ago in LGBTQ
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4 ups, 3y,
3 replies
Just "Yo, Rando question, Who you got the hots for? Fo'real"
Works 2/3
2 ups, 3y,
1 reply
I'm happy for you. My rate is considerably lower... 😅🙈
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2 ups, 3y,
1 reply
I never used it for myself xD
Though I did end up with a guy
2 ups, 3y,
1 reply
Well, how did you both know you wanted it? 🙈 I feel like 95% of my crushes are very one-sided. 😅 None of my relationships have started because I told someone I had a crush on them. 🙈
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2 ups, 3y,
1 reply
The stars really had to align for me to find another pansexual person xD
2 ups, 3y,
1 reply
Tell me about it... I already have trouble finding other polyamorous people... 🙈
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2 ups, 3y,
1 reply
I think nowadays you can just specify it on dating sites
1 up, 3y,
2 replies
Maybe that's my problem. 😅 I've never used one. 🙈
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1 up, 3y
That explains a lot xD
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1 up, 3y,
1 reply
I've heard of a dating site where you can input you sexuality I forgot what it's called but I think it has cupid in the name
0 ups, 3y,
1 reply
Well, you can add that in your bio anyway. But that still doesn't help me with the crushes I have irl... 🙈 There should be a way to tell people without having to tell them. But if I print my info on a shirt and wear that people will start with that "gay agenda" stuff again. 😅
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0 ups, 3y
Pride pins
2 ups, 3y,
1 reply
Lol I can try 😂
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2 ups, 3y,
1 reply
Alright, Good luck!
2 ups, 3y,
1 reply
Lol thx
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2 ups, 3y
No problem
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0 ups, 3y,
1 reply
That would not work on me as I'm a very plain talker
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0 ups, 3y,
1 reply
Pretty sure that's slightly your problem
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0 ups, 3y,
1 reply
It's not even a problem
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0 ups, 3y
I mean, True, But you get the point
1 up, 3y,
1 reply
Been there... a lot...

Usually, I just wait until the topic of LGBTQ+ comes up (it tends to come up every once in a while when I talk to people) and then gauge their reaction. If they don't seem to have a problem with it in general (if they did I probably don't want to be friends with them anyway) I casually tell them that I find them attractive. At least, my goal is to seem casual. 😅 I'm not sure if it always works.

Just be prepared for a no and try not to stress over it. That's why it can be helpful to do it via text so they don't see/hear if you're upset. I mean, you probably still want to be friends afterwards and that can be complicated after one asks the other out and the other is afraid they'll hurt one's feelings every time they hang out. Even if you really, really like them and actually are upset if they say no - which is totally understandable btw - it will get better over time and until then you can talk to other friends about it or us on here if you need someone to cheer you up or just listen.

It sounds like I'm telling you it will never work, but that's not what I'm trying to say. I just know there's a chance they might not feel the same way as with any crush ever and it's always good to be prepared. Other than that, just go for it. It might also just work. And perhaps they never even thought about it and with you telling them how you feel they will start to. 😊
1 up, 3y,
1 reply
Thx this helps :)
1 up, 3y
Any time. 😉
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1 up, 3y,
1 reply
Ask him out
0 ups, 3y
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HELP. I KNOW I ASK FOR HELP A LOT ON THIS STREAM. BUT WHAT SHOULD I DO IF I HAVE THE NUMBER OF A GUY I LIKE BUT IDK IF HE LIKES GUYS? I WANNA ASK HIM OUT BUT UGH IDK IF HE LIKES GUYS (I MEAN I’M NOT TECHNICALLY A GUY I’M JUST USING IT FOR LACK OF BETTER WORDS.) BUT WE GET ALONG SO WELL AND HE’S CUTE. HELP ME