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Ik Ik I talk too much about this stuff. But eh. Ik it’s a meme platform but I don’t have another place. Y’all are like my family

Ik Ik I talk too much about this stuff. But eh. Ik it’s a meme platform but I don’t have another place. Y’all are like my family | I AM EXTREMELY SCARED TO TELL MY DAD ABOUT MY SEXUALITY. AND THAT I’M NB; IK WHAT YOUR THINKING, OH GREAT HE’S RANTING AGAIN ABOUT HIS PERSONAL LIFE. BUT IF YOU’RE NOT PLS HELP. SO MY DAD DOESN’T KNOW THAT I’M (POSSIBLY IT’S STILL PENDING IG) PAN, OR THAT I’M (DEFINITELY) NON BINARY. AND HE IS SO HOMOPHOBIC AND WHATNOT. HE’S ALWAYS SAYING, “WELCOME TO 2021 EVERYONE’S GOT A THING” AND “THERE ARE ONLY TWO GENDERS” AND ALL THAT BULLSHIT. SO I’M SO SCARED TO TELL HIM. MY MOM I CAN LEAVE LITTLE HINTS THAT I’M ALL THAT. LIKE OUR MOST RECENT CONVO “I WANT SOMEONE THAT WILL WATCH MARVEL MOVIES WITH ME.” MY MOM SAYS, “A GIRL OR JUST, ANYONE?” AND I DIDN’T ANSWER. AND OFC MY COUNSELOR FORCED THE ANSWER OUT OF ME SO HE KNOWS AND COULD TELL THEM AT ANY GIVEN TIME. 🙄 | image tagged in blank white template | made w/ Imgflip meme maker
220 views 13 upvotes Made by That1DepressedKid 4 years ago in LGBTQ
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1 up, 4y,
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Memechat
0 ups, 4y
Ok
0 ups, 4y
Idk how to invite can u?
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1 up, 4y,
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Me: we have to help this frand
Also Me: coming out trouble? Mood.
0 ups, 4y
Yeh…
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I still haven’t come out yet, but maybe sit them down and tell them how you feel idk
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Idk either
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Sorry, that wasn’t much help
0 ups, 4y
It’s ok
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I think I’ll go reapers plan tho
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0 ups, 4y
Okay
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1 up, 4y,
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I'm gonna say this with absolute honesty.
You don't need to tell him. Don't take it the wrong way, Let me finish.
Be any gender you are and have any orientation that you have, You don't need to show him directly, Live your life as you like it, He has to find that out for himself soon enough, And when he does tell him "I was always like this. You never asked." With absolutely no fear!
This helps with your questioning as well, Cause you don't need a name for your gender or orientation, Just be who you are.

And as for your mom, She definitely knows.
1 up, 4y,
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Uh ok
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1 up, 4y,
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I apologize if any of that didn't suit you
1 up, 4y,
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No it actually sounds good
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1 up, 4y,
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Oh, Well, Thanks!
1 up, 4y,
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Thank you!
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1 up, 4y,
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No problem 😅
1 up, 4y
😊
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1 up, 4y,
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Also vice versa about the "like my family" thing your in the gang
0 ups, 4y
Ok
1 up, 4y,
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I think you should come out because i think that they will have a little trouble with it at first but will then accept you for who you are. At least thats what happened to me
0 ups, 4y,
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Oh ok I’ll do it at some point
1 up, 4y,
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I think the longer you wait the harder it will be for them to get used to it. Im not sure
0 ups, 4y
Makes sense ig
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1 up, 4y,
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dont tell em till you know you have somewhere you can be safe just in case
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I don’t think my dad’ll hit me. He will yell at me and be upset but I’m not so sure he’ll hit me. In case that what u mean by that
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1 up, 4y,
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like a friend or somebody who will take you in if people get abusive, or if your mom is willing to chose your health over her love
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Oh ok. So like a backup family I can shack up with if things get too dicey
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1 up, 4y
yeah
0 ups, 4y,
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Ik just the place about 2 mins from my house is my friend is mom is super nice
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1 up, 4y,
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that sounds good
0 ups, 4y
K
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Ig. But my dad has never understood my depression. He literally says to and I shit you not, “brush it off like a man”
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0 ups, 4y
Yes.
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Bunker sounds safest. Probably something like that. Maybe my own pocket dimesion
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Ok thx
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1 up, 4y,
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0 ups, 4y
No it’s ok
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1 up, 4y,
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Not to scare you or anything but my mom actually disowned his firstborn just because he was gay, then disowned my older sister because she supported him and was sexually abused by my dad, her step dad. And I'm trans, nonbinary, polyromantic, polyamorous, and abrosexual so I'm next to be disowned. They finally got it "right" with my younger sister. She's trans- and homophobic.

A tip from my brother: dont endanger yourself and just hold on. You'll be out of there soon enough.
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I've had a friend who's bi, but transphobic, they think that "there's only two genders, and anybody else just wants attention. If people don't like their gender, they're just broken." So I think that's how? yeah idk its sorta dumb
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No like transphobic and homophobic
0 ups, 4y
Oh. Uhm ok thanks i guess
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...wow...
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Isn’t it illegal for people to disown their children?
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Not where I live i guess. They went to live with their dad and step mom and I never got to see them again.

However, my older sister broke and contacted me via email and then Instagram and now we talk a lot in secret. It's quite nice to have the older sister figure i wanted. I never learned how to tie my shoes until the sixth grade, even then a stranger taught me, so I always wondered that maybe if I had my older sibs, i wouldn't be such a train wreck of a person.
0 ups, 4y
Well, that’s better than what I thought had happened. At least you’re all okay.
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I AM EXTREMELY SCARED TO TELL MY DAD ABOUT MY SEXUALITY. AND THAT I’M NB; IK WHAT YOUR THINKING, OH GREAT HE’S RANTING AGAIN ABOUT HIS PERSONAL LIFE. BUT IF YOU’RE NOT PLS HELP. SO MY DAD DOESN’T KNOW THAT I’M (POSSIBLY IT’S STILL PENDING IG) PAN, OR THAT I’M (DEFINITELY) NON BINARY. AND HE IS SO HOMOPHOBIC AND WHATNOT. HE’S ALWAYS SAYING, “WELCOME TO 2021 EVERYONE’S GOT A THING” AND “THERE ARE ONLY TWO GENDERS” AND ALL THAT BULLSHIT. SO I’M SO SCARED TO TELL HIM. MY MOM I CAN LEAVE LITTLE HINTS THAT I’M ALL THAT. LIKE OUR MOST RECENT CONVO “I WANT SOMEONE THAT WILL WATCH MARVEL MOVIES WITH ME.” MY MOM SAYS, “A GIRL OR JUST, ANYONE?” AND I DIDN’T ANSWER. AND OFC MY COUNSELOR FORCED THE ANSWER OUT OF ME SO HE KNOWS AND COULD TELL THEM AT ANY GIVEN TIME. 🙄