ok, you are completely valid in however you want to identify, but if if i am going off of your wording, i believe that would make you a trans demiromantic
demi-homosexual (assuming your a woman)
I think I’m a trans pan demiaroace lesbian; Which basically means I’m sexually attracted to females and I don’t feel romantically or sexually attracted to someone until I form a deep connection to them. But I could be wrong about it