Unironically I've been seen as picky and hard to impress by everyone around me. Like my mom likes to show me <<handsome>> guys to see if I'd like any of them and none of them did anything for me lol (she'd show me like 20 of them). She'd say that it's good that I have "high standards".
She's wrong ofc. I've had like three crushes ever and one of them was uglier than a blobfish. Also looks don't really come into play until later.