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For the gender: try using different labels like pronouns or gender labels like
For the sexuality: try peicing together each gender. And if you just get those mini butterflies around a gender group

honestly, just try on different labels and see how they feel. Get a close friend who you know isn’t homophobic, and come out to them with a different sexuality/gender every week until one feels right.

Well, Ask away

I used to think I was Bi but now whenever I think about it, the thought of love or anything of such just seems awkward to me. I don't enjoy the thought of sexual relationships and thinking about having one with a girl or boy makes me feel uncomfortable. I started to believe I was Asexual, so what am I, then? Bisexual or Asexual? Or am I straight and just don't have an actual major crush yet?

As for the gender crisis, I've been wondering whether I am a Demi-girl or a nonbinary. It's quite minor, and I don't really consider it a crisis, but it's always in the back of my mind. I want to be nonbinary because I don't feel as if the term she/her suits me as much as I thought it did. I settled with Demi-girl and managed to come out to my two best friends, (one was lesbian and the other was an ally) but after a lot of confusion with my friends wondering what pronouns to use for me and me also wondering such, I started to wonder if Demi-girl was really a good term for me, and now that I think about it: not really. But I still have no idea if I want to be a nonbinary or not, so I'm sticking with Demi-girl for now. Btw I haven't come out to my parents as Bi or Demi yet and I don't get to talk to my friends about it because of the whole pandemic thing. Besides, my straight friend moved away and she doesn't really know how to help me whenever I call her, and my les friend can't call me on zoom or google meet because she got her phone taken away.

Well crap this is long-- I've been trying to figure out what the heck I am for both gender and sexuality, but like I said in this image I'm caught up with irl stuff and have forced myself to put it in the back of my mind and tell myself "I'll deal with it later," but I never do. It puts some stress on me and that's not helpful for me at all, especially when I'm already stressed a lot from annoying siblings and other things going on. ;-; (Late reply because I went to sleep lol)

Honey, That has "Fluid' written all over it.
You're most likely Abrosexual, Abroromantic AND Genderfluid!

Well flip I guess it's time to come out to my friends all over again...

This'll probably be easier, Considering you already did it before 😅
Good luck, honey

And I mean "VERY" Likely!

my family says we shouldnt label them, like i thought i was lesbian but then i thought i was bi but im not bi with a lean be i feel gay aroundgirls but straight around boys but when im with both i like both but i feel more gay so i just call myself queer, not bi pan omni or lesbian.

same thing for gender, i feel like a girl sometimes but i also feel like an enby.

Idk