https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=7R5A0pg4oN8

Depends on what you’re confused about.

Well, here's the first step:
Are you trying to figure out your gender? Sexuality? Romanticity? All of the above?

Uhh first 2

Ah I see. Ok well, ask yourself these questions for gender:
What is my relationship to gender? Do I feel a connection to the male gender? Female gender? Both? Neither? Was I born in the wrong body?
Video that may help: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1RO9LPMQEYE
Helpful link: https://gender.wikia.org/wiki/Gender_Wiki

Now for sexual orientation:
Think about who you've felt *sexual* attraction to. Do you only feel *sexual* attraction to males? Females? Enbies (those who are non binary)? Or does gender not matter? Another possibility is that you may not feel sexual attraction at all regardless of gender or only under certain circumstances, which is another path completely.
Helpful link: https://lgbta.wikia.org/wiki/LGBTA_Wiki

I hope this helps!

What’s the difference between sexual attraction and romantic attraction

Memechat me if u still confused. I can help