I don’t talk first cuz I feel like I am a nuisance
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0 ups, 3y,
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I used to, but I stopped because I realized nobody cares about me enough to respond.
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0 ups, 3y,
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(You never replied to my hangout dm ;~;)
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0 ups, 3y
Oh hold on
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0 ups, 3y,
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:/ I dont talk to people first bc of social anxiety
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1 up, 3y,
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I sometimes do, but I stopped because I realized that nobody cares enough to respond
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0 ups, 3y,
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Online I did sometimes but theres still a lot of times that I just can't
Irl it's v e r y hard for me to tho unless ik the person really well in which case it's a bit easier
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1 up, 3y,
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Yeah. Online is easier but at the same time it’s harder.
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0 ups, 3y,
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Yeah
And part of it's that half the time idek what I should say or just what to say at all which makes it harder to start and continue a conversation
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1 up, 3y,
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I 100% agree. And then sometimes I send something that idk if I should send or not, and I don’t get a response for like 5 hours.
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0 ups, 3y,
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Yeah or it sounds like I'm not interested in the conversation anymore but I am I just don't know what to say so I say something like ohok
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1 up, 3y,
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And then when I say “oh” or “okay” I feel bad because I feel like they were expecting something enthusiastic or something.
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0 ups, 3y,
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Exactly- and that just makes the social anxiety w o r s e
Wanna know what I find funny? Nobody talks to you unless you talk to them first. Nobody cares about you, unless you give them a reason to; But then the second that you say you have no friends, a bunch of people say how they are “offended” and how “they have always been there for you”; And then when you actually need them, they are nowhere to be found
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